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Personal Style: What it Means to Find it, Have it, Wear it

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Fashion has the power to show the world who we are, allowing us to define our identity and persona from day to day, from look to look. I teamed up with Taylor Evans of Stylishly Taylored to talk about our respective personal styles – what it means to have it, find it, and wear it.

Finding it: reflecting on our personal style and its evolution

How would you describe your personal style now?

Vanessa: Elegant, chic, thoughtful. I’m very intentional with the looks I style. My husband says I’m an obsessive perfectionist, and maybe I am. I want everything – the color, proportions, textures – to be balanced just so.

Taylor: Eclectic, retro, repurposed. My personal style spans decades and stereotypes; and I love using retro/retro-inspired pieces to prove that a look isn’t defined by one piece, but rather, how you style it.

How has it evolved over the years?

Vanessa: I used to have a pretty minimalist wardrobe with very little color. But since I started blogging I’ve found I think more like an art director. I always aim to have one focal point in my looks, to draw the eye, and a few unexpected details that you don’t notice until later.

Taylor: Believe it or not, I had an incredibly preppy style in college. And blonde hair. I thought brand was important for status, but as I’ve grown older, I’ve transitioned to buying clothes/brands for quality, not status.

What are you influenced by; what/who inspires you?

Vanessa: Editorial photography, both in magazines and from photographers I follow on social media.

Taylor: I draw inspiration from all walks of life – retro advertisements, runway looks, others on social media.

Having it: exploring society, culture, and the role of fashion

What does having a personal style mean to you?

Vanessa: It’s important to how I feel. If I know I’ve done something creative with a look, I feel energized. If I’m wearing something polished, I feel more confident.

Taylor: It means I get to express my confidence and mood through my clothes. Personal style is an art and when I’ve created a look that’s both flattering and authentic, I feel accomplished.

What role does fashion play in society today?

Vanessa: It’s a way to have fun, be creative, and say something about yourself to the world. It’s also an indicator of our social tastes and norms. We are less limited by social norms around dressing than we were 50 years ago, or even five years ago. Those walls will only break down more and more.

Taylor: More and more, brands are creating clothes intended to make social statements. Graphic tees, pops of colors, wider size ranges. We are able to shift cultural and social norms through our clothes and the way we wear them.

The fashion industry is often criticized for its unsustainable environmental practices and propagation of a culture of consumption. How do you think the industry will evolve / what needs to change?

Vanessa: I see a strong movement towards sustainable production practices, and the use of renewable, biodegradable materials like organic cotton, silk, and wool. I’m also a huge proponent of buying secondhand.

Taylor: I think there is an uproar of initiatives for sustainable style. ThredUp, Poshmark, Tradesy, Rent the Runway. To change the industry, I think we need to focus our energy on encouraging sustainability instead of fighting fast fashion.

Wearing it: on our present and future style

How do you decide what to wear on any given day?

Vanessa: Five days out of the week I’m dressing for the office, so I usually grab something comfortable without thinking too much about how it looks. Layers are essential to cope with the office air conditioning. I’ll wear flats but bring a change of shoes and a bright lipstick if I have an event after work.

Taylor: During the week, I try to balance practicality with style. My office is always cold so I wear layers; lab safety requires us to wear closed-toed shoes. When I have an event after work, I will usually wear a work-modified version of my planned outfit keeping a change of shoes in my bag.

How do you plan the looks you shoot for your blog?

Vanessa: The setting is almost as important as the look itself, so I’ll consider the color palette and shapes of where I’m shooting. I usually try on a bunch of different things and take photos, and then review them to see what meshes together best. It’s not effortless!

Taylor: Truth is I’m really bad at planning which looks to shoot! I have a lot of pieces I want to capture, and sometimes I’m not sure if I should 1) re-shoot a certain piece styled differently or 2) shoot a new piece entirely. I try on a bunch of things but only wears what feels right in the moment because no matter the look I choose, confidence makes any photo.

What’s your go-to piece in your closet right now?

Vanessa: My red Rothy’s flats. They go with everything and they really brighten up a look.

Taylor: Hmm, I would definitely have to say my lilac blazer is a go-to. It brings color, structure, and a chic edge to any minimal look.

What’s going to be trending this summer?

Vanessa: Pink and red. It’s a color palette that has traditionally been a no-no, but I love the power and energy it conveys. Victoria Beckham did a lot with pink and red for her London Fashion Week show back in February, and I’ve been seeing it all over ever since.

Taylor: Piggy-backing on Vanessa’s answer, two-tone and creative forms of asymmetry – asymmetrical jean skirts to two-toned denim – are definitely trending this summer.

What does personal style mean to you? Let me know in the comments, or send me a message on Instagram where you can stay tuned into my thoughts and adventures. To see more personal style, check out posts under my Style tab or shop my looks here

To see more of Taylor’s style, be sure to check out her Instagram and website stylishlytaylored.com!

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10 Comments

  1. Love this post! Each of your different responses speaks to how personal style is for each individual. Even when buying/wearing something similar… your personality comes out in how you style it!

    Posted 7.1.19 Reply
    • Vanessa wrote:

      Thanks, Kristi! We laughed when we saw each other because we definitely didn’t plan it!

      Posted 7.10.19 Reply
  2. Colleen wrote:

    I loved hearing about where you both draw your inspiration from it! It’s so interesting to see how different things affect different individuals styles. I’m still working on my own style and refining it to where I want to be. Great job ladies!

    Posted 7.1.19 Reply
    • Vanessa wrote:

      Thanks Colleen! I feel like I’ve been experimenting with some looks I wouldn’t have been into last year – floral prints, ruffles – and testing where my style should grow and where I want to stay consistent. It’s constantly evolving!

      Posted 7.10.19 Reply
  3. Sara Wagner wrote:

    Really enjoyed your post!

    Posted 7.1.19 Reply
  4. LOVE the post! Especially you sitting on the bench! Seriously, please give me some modeling tips! And I love how you two are wearing the same red tank, but have completely different styles and still OWNING IT! Ugh, the 9-5….lol That’s how I dress as well, ‘grab something comfortable.’
    – Shantell

    Posted 7.2.19 Reply
    • Vanessa wrote:

      Thanks Shantell!! Could you guess we didn’t even plan to coordinate our looks?! And I’d love to meet up and shoot together in the Fall!

      Posted 7.10.19 Reply
  5. Lauleh Aslani wrote:

    LOVE reading both your responses!! I totally do the same thing and pick out outfits based on location, it’s very intentional, and always pays off!

    Posted 7.3.19 Reply
    • Vanessa wrote:

      I can totally tell you do this! Your shots are always so thoughtful and well-styled.

      Posted 7.10.19 Reply